well congrats Sexgoddx on being comfortable enough to be open about who you are. I wish you the best of luck in your transition and am here to listen if you need to vent.
arthurnix transgender people are still massively misunderstood and aren't common enough in pop culture to know the etiquette in what is ok to say and what isn't. I don't think anyone is meaning to be insensitive but spreading the word is always good.