idk, i came out at 18 as Gay and now that i am 25, I absolutely FUCKINNNGGGG hate labels and try to just tell people I'm Queer. I think sexuality is very fluid and constantly changing and I don't really know what I'm attracted to, but I know I'm not straight. I just genuinely hate having to put myself in this box when "Gay" just doesn't seem like a label that makes sense to me... why can't I just be me? Why is society so concerned about who sleeps with who? If I stick it in a man, cool; if one day I find a woman I'm crazy about and stick it in her, cool. But like, it should only matter for me and the person I am involved with.
Queer to me is more of an umbrella term and is all encompassing, which leads me to identify as that more than gay. Idk why, but hi
