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Big Brother and online Hunger games.

Imma need dudes to stop asking me “top or bottom”

Mar 22, 2018 by Skyler_TW
Niggah I’m BOOOTH. & so are youuu.

I’m tired of gay niggahs asking this & thinking there’s a solid one way answer. I realize people have preferences for just about anything, & sex is no different but let’s not act like just cos you enjoy topping better don’t mean you’re a “top” or can’t bottom.

That phrase always bothers me because like, you’re obviously a whore asking me this, you obviously just fuck around & never been in a relationship where you’re doing both roles.

Being gay means taking dick & giving it. I don’t know where this “top or bottom” shit came from. Hoe ass gays made it up after experiencing both & being a slut. If you come to me & tell me you’re “strictly top” or “don’t bottom” or “don’t like to bottom” for one, I’m gonna make a confused “what the fuck” face like I’d make when I can’t understand something irrational or something that don’t add up, for 2, know that you’re not hitting lol.

All I hear when someone tells me they’re strictly top or don’t bottom/don’t like to bottom is A.) “I fuck lots of guys” B.) “I’m controlling/I like control” & C.) “i’m too good to bottom/you’re not good enough to top, rather make you my bitch” ANYONE who says they don’t or won’t bottom is literally just a controlling or egotistical man whore, viewing you as a slam piece. I’m no one’s bottom bitch lol if you think you’re gonna designate me as your bottom I’m uncomfortable & I’m turned off.

It’s either that^ or they’re just too macho acting to wanna play that role. I too, was like that once so that’s why I can call out this behavior. Lots of dudes claim to be strictly top because they’re not keen on the idea of taking it up the ass. I get that tbh & I only bottomed for the first time to a dude I really liked. We were together for a month & he played me but yeah that was the first dude I ever let fuck me. Either way though, I’m not down w/ this “strictly top” persona.. that’s all it is, a persona. I know that you either have or WILL take dick in your life so don’t ever say to me you’re one or the other, there is no such thing in the gay world.

If somebody says they won’t bottom for you it’s not because they don’t like it, it’s because they don’t like you

Comments

I only bottom but I bottom for all guys so 😀
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
Also you kinda have to take into account not only preference but how comfortable you are with topping. Some people have topped multiple times and they don't like the feeling/don't feel comfortable doing it.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
Idk depends, some people genuinely find being bottom physically painful/uncomfortable. But then you have guys who want to pretend they are straight so only top and they are self hating cunts.
Sent by Anas,Mar 22, 2018
Anas That last sentence is what I’m point out too haha. That’s mostly what the case is. I understand bottoming isn’t great to begin with. You gotta get used to it & get past that painful uncomfortable part. You think vaginal sex is painless the first couple of times? But females love that shit. Men do too cos that’s our G spot, their macho-ness just don’t let them accept it. Just gotta loosen er up lol
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
What about the people with a low pain tolerance. Or people who have had really bad experience with sexually activity topping/bottoming? I mean you can't just say if you don't do both your fake and you hate yourself.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
Skyler_TW I guess you could argue a lot of girls outright say no to anal sex (I have friends who do) and I guess we're out of options (or holes) lmao. But yeah I agree in a fully functioning relationship, it'd be boring not to be vers
Sent by Anas,Mar 22, 2018
WestTemp I gave way more examples of what it means to not bottom than lying to oneself & self-hate.

It’s only painful at first. Once you get past that you’re literally gonna cum lmao. Surely everyone should know it’s not painful forever...
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
Anas It’s a little different w/ girls. They already have their designated hole & their G spot is there. When girls imagine sex they imagine it vaginally. Anal sex is our thing lol. Lots of females even view it as that & refuse for that reason. It has to do w/ just not liking the idea of it, which I said I related to & fully understand. Girl’s don’t have to be keen on the idea of stuff up the butt. For guys it’s all we have
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
Buy what about the people who legit physically can't bring themselves to do it? I mean you can't just say "oh you don't bottom? Bye" I mean people have their reasons. It could be a physical health problem or a bad experience from the past. If someone doesn't top it could be the same thing. It's just kinda close minded to say if you don't verse I don't fuck with you just like if someone says you don't strictly bottom since I strictly top I don't fuck with you. The same thing goes for both and an argument can be made for either side.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
Skyler_TW I get that my point was about physical pain, like if sex hurts it's not fun unless you like pain - most people don't. Tbh id rather people be honest about what they want, atleast you know who to avoid.
Sent by Anas,Mar 22, 2018
This is so extra who da fuck are you to tel someone how to live there life
Sent by Crayadian,Mar 22, 2018
Anas Penetration HURTS. There’s no way it’s not going to hurt at first, that’s obvious. For vagina & asshole, it hurts first... but what does that have to do w/ refusing to bottom? It’s not gonna be painful forever & it’s not gonna get less painful without actually breaking it in. That’s like not wearing new shoes cos you don’t wanna go through the “breaking em in” phase. Nobody is refusing to bottom because it’s painful, they may be discouraged for a while but eventually there is a sex partner who’ll be able to help w/ the discouragement. If they can’t find that then they’re not looking & it goes back to them just being a hoe & a macho man. It’s not the pain that makes them not like bottoming because surely they know that’s gonna temporary & even if that is the sole reason for a while, they aren’t gonna get away with never bottoming in life so let’s suck it. Once they get past it they’ll realize they actually like it lol but that’s what they’re afraid of. It all comes down to mental shit it has nothing to do w/ physical feeling
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
When your points are ignored.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
You didn’t make points WestTemp you just said mine were invalid.

What do you mean “couldn’t being themselves to bottom”? Is it like a chore? Is it terrifying? Nothing holds you back from anything except you. I don’t know what past trauma somebody could have gone through to not wanna bottom ever again but these reasons are irrelevant because situations like that have never happened w/ me. Surely if somebody COULDN’T bottom because of some reasons like you’re giving them they would say that & not just be like “I don’t bottom, I only top” blah blah
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
What if someone got raped? I mean I hate to take it that far but it could definitely go that far. It's closed minded to assume that everyone doesn't mind having things shoved up their ass if their gay. I for one don't like to top because I'm uncomfortable with it. But I don't only bottom for certain people.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
WestTemp See this why your comments were ignored cos something like rape is a whole other thing than people coming to me & asking my role
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
No you ignore my comments because I actually have a legit argument and you don't understand someone else's point of view.
Sent by WestTemp,Mar 22, 2018
WestTemp No your comments are literally off topic & out of pocket. Wasn’t nobody talking about what you’re talking about.. coming up w/ crazy scenarios that I didn’t even touch on
Sent by Skyler_TW,Mar 22, 2018
Skyler_TW dude I'm not discounting your blog, just bringing another perspective. You did this with my race preference blog too, chill I'm just bringing another view. I read your blog I get what you mean but don't entirely agree
Sent by Anas,Mar 22, 2018

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