I just don't understand how so many people go "university/college is the best time of your life!!", I'm literally on 2nd year, and my miserable ass has been stressing over how much I don't know if I ever make the right choice anymore. I literally haven't made any solid "friends" throughout my years so far, and that makes it even worse because if I have hard time with assignments, no one can technically help me LMFAO (when I'm sure all those groups of friends help each other as much as they can on those). And I read something by someone once, being like "your roommates/flatmates are your friends for life" or something of the sort, and they lied honey, they lied.
And I don't understand why uni is so important anymore, some people are well off/live fine without it, and this shit is genuinely difficult. I literally wanna break down every other day because there's nothing that makes me happy anymore, and honestly the thought that "I'm not studying the right thing" comes to mind more often than not. (I'm studying computer science btw) Me being closeted irl doesn't help much either but oh well, great times they say.
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Those who enjoy it studied shit like women studies.
Like u can skip the entire year and still pass shit like that.
I love u so much. If it makes u feel better the same thoughts have been eating me alive the past few weeks, ur not alone and im sure its just not us either. U just gotta realize it'll be ok no matter what sissie <3 you're an amazing person and friend to me on here so I know thing will work out for u. I'm always here to talk if needed :)
Its better than HS. Hs just makes you do busy work for shits and giggles and is way more time consuming and you're skill set is questionable (i.e some shit you learn you dont ever use.)
You’re not alone. I know exactly how you feel especially with being a science major. College is definitely super hard with the assignments and tests, and I’ve had sooo many breakdowns and worries this semester so far along with feeling lonely at times. I am here for you if you need anything. <3
College is not all fun and games by any means and I can definitely say there were plenty of days I felt like total and complete shit -- worst case scenario, every day is a small victory and it's a little closer till you can get your degree and get on with your life.
I honestly don't see how someone can't like college tbh. HS was a hellhole and i couldnt wait to get out of there but I never want to leave college. Midterms and finals suck but everything else is a hoot and a half. Me and my roommate also are the best of friends now and I am not scared to share or tell her anything. I guess it depends on the person but I don't think people "lied" it's just a matter of how you make it.
Like u can skip the entire year and still pass shit like that.