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Big Brother and online Hunger games.

Ok Jimmy

1stJan 23, 2021 by PrincessTeePee
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1, i saved ILY before even knowing this situation, I was taking a breather from working from home at the time. I wasn’t the only person who saved him either.

2, I don’t agree with what he did. But he took more ownership than many of the other predators would. I can’t say much more on this but I certainly would never support it

3, I’m going to make this one SUPER FUCKING CLEAR, I have NEVER EVER defended what JesseM did. I’ve read the stories too and appalled is an understatement. ‘He’s your #2 friend’.. oh ffs don’t bother with that one. I’ve been pretty much all mobile since 2012 and don’t change my friends list much (I am in the process of it). He was my close friend when we met, in 2009. But I do NOT agree with his actions towards minors. He’s never here and we don’t talk much or I’d say so myself to him.

4, I don’t support any of this, if anything I’ve always encouraged minors to ignore/block these people and report if necessary. Bryan does have the right to do this.

5, I’m sorry to anyone who has gone through this.

6, don’t send nudes to ANYONE on here. Nobody here is worthy of something so personal.

7, if any USUAL SUSPECTS are reading this and about to comment hate, don’t bother. They will be deleted. The last thing I want right now is shit from you. I’ll even pm rando if I have to, you made me resort to going to mods once before. I’ll do it again.

Comments

alicia <3
Sent by XxLoveWakizaxX,Jan 23, 2021
Can you add a bullet point for the last comment (where you said people are being crusaders because they probably sent nudes where they were minors)
Sent by konohavillage1,Jan 23, 2021
I mean it is kinda odd how you choose to keep him as #2 even when you know the truth, “in the process of changing your friend list”...it takes 2 seconds to unfriend someone and the facts have been known for ages

Gives off vibes you still wanna be friends with him tbh
Sent by xCelestex,Jan 23, 2021
He is premed so no need to have his ass added anymore lol
Sent by CutieAmy,Jan 23, 2021
konohavillage1 the fact is tengaged likes a crusade. Once something is made public like this, there’s a lot of ganging up and people jumping in like it concerns them. Bryan and Bryan alone has to decide what to do next. Everyone makes it their business, dragging people into it who had nothing at all to do with it. It honestly pisses me off. I’m against nudes in general, and a lot of people who are jumping on this bandwagon know they have sent and received them themselves. Nowhere did I say that made it right.

xcelestex in no way am I the only one who has him as a friend but I get the most tormented for it. I will deal with it.
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 23, 2021
another person came out against him btw
Sent by mathboy9,Jan 23, 2021
princessteepee I mean I would get a bandwagon argument but after the initial blog and the resulting blogs (which were of course made because people were upset at yet another pedophile scandal on here) he came back with a blog explaining his side and it’s currently outranking the initial call out blog. The site is obviously not ganging up on either person, though now that a second victim has come forward it’s weird to be defending one of them.

People are really fucking crusaders. Most of them engaged in nudes when they were minors I wouldn’t mind.

You know what you did was wrong and I know you’ll learn and grow from it. It’ll be old news next week
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 23, 2021

When you say this, it just really comes across as weird because why even bring up what people were doing when they were children? We grow up and we change. Just because people sent nudes as minors doesn’t mean they can’t now be against sending nudes, especially TO minors. You didn’t say it made ily right but you implied that it made the people with valid concerns wrong because they apparently have no ground to stand on if they sent nudes before.

You do have a right to defend yourself if you were unaware of the updates to this current thing, which is why I asked you to reconsider because I don’t want to dogpile on you.
Sent by konohavillage1,Jan 23, 2021
mathboy9 I’ve not seen this at all. I’ll look into it
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 23, 2021
konohavillage1 I didn’t mean for it to come off as them having no ground to stand on, but rather than go crazy on a bandwagon, they should remember that. We do learn and grow.
I’ve never seen the point of nudes.

I apologise if I did come off that way
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 23, 2021
Oh Alicia...this aint the take at all. It takes everyone to rid this website of pedophiles. It very much is appropriate to gang up on people who engage in criminal behavior with minors to run them off the website.

On top of that, point #6 is problematic in itself. The answer is not to never send nude photos to anyone. That may be your choice and that's perfectly fine for YOU to make that choice, but to make that point here...is irrelevant and in a weird way equates sending nudes to predatory behavior. There's nothing wrong with two consenting adults sending photos to one another. In doing so, yes, you take the chance that they could always be spread, but you know that in doing so.

I also second what @xCeleste said here. I removed RobertGuajardo on Snapchat when I had a streak of 300+ with him when I saw people posting about their stories with him. I remove anyone from my life permanently when I see a credible accusation against them. It's not difficult and it's a very simple thing to do to make other users feel safer.
Sent by Aquamarine,Jan 24, 2021
** xCelestex
Sent by Aquamarine,Jan 24, 2021
I respect you PrincessTeePee as always, but I do personally agree that as someone who was at the very least perceived to be close friends with Jesse, you could have done more to publicly condemn his actions, especially if you were aware that people perceived you to be standing him despite everything.
Sent by JamesM,Jan 24, 2021
Nah aquamarine, what I saw was toxic and potentially damaging. I fully understand the anger, but people were jumping in for the purpose of trolling and clutching at straws, as was how I was dragged in. It’s absolutely criminal behaviour but it can be dealt with better. None of this will be cared about in a week or so, and you know that’s the truth. People love a crusade.

I disagree again, especially when it comes to tengaged. Let’s be honest, while we may have very good friends here, they’re still strangers, and we only know a snippet of their personality. I wouldn’t ever be comfortable sending a private picture to anybody here, we are not in a relationship and we don’t really know each other. Plus, this picture was sent unsolicitedly. A whole load of problems would be avoided without nudes or filming private moments. What YOU do is up to you, but nudes are an epidemic and have always been a bit of a cancer on this site if I’m honest.
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 24, 2021
jamesm I turned my back on my friend of over 11 years last night. Given that my own memories of him were lovely and funny that hurt in a big way. I was never involved in any of the shit but of course I saw it. He never logged on and even less on Skype and realistically we haven’t really had a conversation in a good few years but believe me I’d have said something as some of the things I saw were gross. Of course I condemn it, but I’m a human and he was my friend, it hurt.
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jan 24, 2021
princessteepee It takes 8 years to remove someone from your friends page?
Sent by koolness234,Jan 24, 2021
~OLD drama, we have since talked
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Apr 1, 2021

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