I hate how many people on here automatically assume you are male just because "they haven't seen you" which in my opinion is really stupid like sure, there are guys on here who pretend to be girls but just because some do doesn't mean every other tger with a girl avi does as well, that is like saying all muslims are terrorists just because isis are muslims but just because they are doesn't make every muslim a terrorist as well, honestly i just find it really stupid and i hate when people overgeneralize people by assuming just because "some are" means it applies to everyone else as well
I don't know - I think it's fair to assume everyone is a boy unless proven otherwise because tengaged is vastly male and we've had countless people pretend to be girls only to come out as boys.
For the muslim thing, that would be considered racist and yeah calling a girl a boy is probably something (not sexist but idk) however I'm sure 9/10 girls if they are called dudes on the internet would not care. I guess being called a terrorist = racist, being called a boy is not meant as an insult/negative connotation it is used more to describe someone. The only thing being called a boy would have a negative vibe to it is if you were making fun of a trans person then it would be bad.
BUT OVERALL WHO CARES WHETHER SOME PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET THINK YOUR A GUY LMAO LET THEM THINK WHAT THEY WANT! Having strangers online assume you are a guy should not ruin your day or cause any sort of uproar
I get your frustraton but to compare yourself to the struggles of someone experiencing racism
is a little far fetched. I don’t see how anyone other than your close friends assuming you’re male is such a tragedy?
You have to look at context. How many girls have you heard of that genderfake as guys? None right? But vice versa I know many, so while it’s annoying, it’s not a) surprising b) as traumatic as you say
"that is like saying all muslims are terrorists just because isis are muslims" LMAO YOU DIDNT NOT JUST SOUND RACIST IN DEFENDING YOUR SO CALLED VAGINA HOLDING PERSONA.
ParvatiS As someone who has experienced both...that's quite the comparison!
With the presumption that everyone on here is male, there have been too many guys who have pretended to be female. Some pulled it off for years. So the real females on this website suffer due to the fakers.
A BETTER COMPARISON WOULD BE THIS:
It's like when someone blogs about depression and contemplating suicide. Due to the attention seekers making it into a joke, the real cries for helps are treated as attention seeking.
And yeah, even though I've vlogged and posted photos, people still think I'm male. I used to get mad, now I just don't care.