and I don’t think it’s any of y’alls business to judge us for that. Yes, I have sex with other men and so does he. Yes we both know the other does it and we accept it, although we have a rule to do it discreetly and to not talk about our other affairs with each other. As long as we do it out of sight, my father and I can continue our sexually and emotionally fulfilling romance with each other while occasionally having some fun with other men. And there’s nothing wrong or immoral about that.