Hi, I'm Jakob but my friends mostly call me Jake. And today subject on what type of person I'm really am when it comes to dating.
Ive been single for 6 years. And let me tell you why ive been single that long. After my last gf when I was 17. I didn't really was out much. I mostly been with family helping out. And when I finally got a job i did fell for this one girl. But after she was gone i kinda lost all my self esteem and my atittude. Listen to my song "Fly Away" On youtube by The Jibster. If you want to know more.
And moving on from that subject cuz i told it so many times so most likely everyone knows that story by now.
What type of bf I would be?
Well for one I would never ask the girl out by message. I do things more towards the old ways and ask the girl out in person. But I have to get to know the girl before I start anything. If a girl ask me out i wouldnt say yes right away cuz i have no clue on who she really is. So I most likely would take things more slow and actually say "I cant really answer that. Maybe we can hang out as friends first and get to know each other before thinking about dating" Im not like most guys cuz ik most guys would be like "omg shes hot thats a yes automatically" And im like "she may look decent on the outside but is she on the inside?"
But I have to confess one thing though. Most ppl might get confuse on how I act and who I am. And let me explain that.
I got my heart smashed and im afraid of opening up cuz i dont want to feel hurt so I act all tough and also act like I dont give a crap. Cuz i dont want to feel those same emotions I did from my last heart break. So mostly I hide my true self a lot and ik thats bad
The reason why I fell for that girl is because she was the first decent girl who actually enjoyed my company. And now since shes gone i do act like a dick a lot but I just dont want no one to get close to me. Like my ex co worker I pushed her away cuz I knew she liked me and I saw we were getting close. And my health wasnt helping either. And true facts is im not rdy. My health interferes a lot and i havent quite accept my symptoms yet and I also don't believe in true love cuz i dont see any true love anymore. And I blame social media for that. I think it screwed up most ppl. Like now texting or leaving a message is what everyone does. No one likes to even hang its like im just talking to an online friend that i know irl and it doesnt seem like theres a thing there. And i dont count online dating as actual dating cuz the majority of it theres no future so why should it even be a point to even start it. Itll only work if the guy and the girl have a possible way in meeting.
I like to be the guy who inspires the girl and make her feel like she is the only girl in the world. Im very romantic fyi.
I may have lost a lot of trust in females cuz how they all been acting. For example: posting sexy pics for attention. And acts all crazy for not paying attention to to them. And just wanting sex from the guy. And it also seems a lot like it if the guy be rude to them.
I do have a lot of trust to build up ik that. And if I do meet someone I'll give you advice on how to win my heart.
1. You have to be patient
2. You really have to be loyal
3. Dont be too sensitive
4. Dont be too forceful
5. Be more understanding
6. Like me only if im actually your type and not because im a guy.
And you rlly have to be strong with me and never leave when im on my bad days and try your best to prove me wrong that there are still nice decent girls out there. Its possible to win my heart but it is really hard. You just need to never give up on me and if the girl rlly loves me for who I am then I'll see there wont be no problem with it. And most likely that girl will succeed and I think its a good thing that I play hard to get cuz if the girl really loves me I'll know if they are real if they be patient with me and if they are willingto stay no matter what the cost is. and stay communicating cuz i think the connection would get lost if you dont talk to much.
But as for now I rather focus on myself and keep doing what Im doing. And honestly thats the best way for everyone cuz you might find that special someone unexpectedly. And thats how I would like to find my true love.
So hope you enjoy my message. 😊
