Buttercup13 and though I don't understand things fully I apologized and have been trying to give her the space and time needed to heal. Tho me joining that frooks how was I to know she be there lol. I hope she shares her story here or on her own blog so I can fully understand and that the air can be cleared because things not settled bothers me and I would love to fully understand where things went wrong so I can learn from this. thank you