is a flawed concept. straight people shouldnt have to come out why should faggots, i should just be able to bring a piece of ass home and say hey this is my homosexual boyfriend deal with it. the idea of coming out just seems based in a conception of "oh wow homosexuality is so different and needs its own special thing" when it truly doesnt
But like you put on a facade that you are hetro and then discover you want your neighbor's dick inside of you. Some people are queera since the day they were born and others only come into terms with their sexuality later in life