being trans on tengaged is exhausting
its part of my identity but i don't like advertising it irl & i rarely even bring it up. here, i feel like i'm constantly talking about it because i constantly have to call people out for being transphobic...this place gets so nasty & then people will gaslight us & say they or others "weren't even being transphobic" like that's their call to make. can't we just get people to do better? and can some of you stop defending your friends when they cross the line?
Literally, i feel so bad for the trans women on this site yall go through so much bullshit. All the transphobes are all so fucking concerned about yall's genitals and for what?
im so sorry :( I cant imagine how exhausting that must be.
People that aren't trans choosing what passes as transphobia and what doesn't is literally the same as white people deciding whats deemed racist and what's not, its very strange.
