Writing this because i cant really say alot about this situation in my life at the moment ❤️
So Yesterday morning I was woken up from my dad at 9am with him crying his eyes out I was still half asleep and didnt know what was going and assumed someone had died! he then said to I know your going to hate me but in a few years I hope you forgive me and he said look after your mum and make sure she is ok! he then leaves the house.
I go into the kitchen where my mum and my sister are and they are crying their eyes out and they tell me that my dad is leaving and has admitted to be having an affair with his boss who ive known since i was little and they have bought a house in a near village to where we live all of this was planned in secret and my dad stole 5 grand my mums account! He has cheated in the past with a different lady when i was much younger and we all forgave him not this time though!
The worst thing is that my mum and dad are foster carers and have 3 boys which could mean they could be taken off of us if they think my mum can't cope on her own which would cause so much shit for us all
So basically my dad is a vile cunt whos just fucked his whole family over and that just proves to me you can't trust anyone even your own family
Thankyou for all the support I’ve had from friends love you all
Im so sorry you have to go through this. You are an incredibly strong person & you have so many people who love/care for you. You and your family don't deserve this whatsoever. I love you buddy, here for you whenever you need me.
This is just soo heartbreaking. I am soo sorry this is happening. Your dad is just evil, and y’all deserve sm better. I am praying for you guys. And if you need to vent about it, my pm’s are open. <3
I know we always joke with each other but you’re a great guy and I hope you and your family find the strength to overcome this and even bond closer together. Fuck him
What the actual fuck, that’s awful I’m so sorry :(
Hope you’re able to come stronger from this and keep the boys. Thinking of your family. What an asshole!
its eerie how similar this is to what I went through when my parents split up, then dad came back, then they lived happily ever after as very very close friends. They were married like 30 years and never got a divorce lol.
"and that just proves to me you can't trust anyone even your own family"
sorry follow up, not to psychoanalyze but maybe you should see a therapist if you actually feel this way because its probably unhealthy for your future and i dont mean this in a negative way at all
