I really want to fix this for you and anyone else that was offended by my blog. I sincerely would never want to take away or do anything that could be taken as offensive, especially to someone in the middle of something so delicate and sensitive as the journey you are on. I fully support this and I never wanted to hurt you in the way that I did, or hurt anyone else. My blog was reprehensible and tone deaf and I fully regret it because of the way that you and anyone else may have received it.
I don't want to make any excuses for myself. My intentions would never ever to do say, imply, or do anything in the way that you felt from my words. I am truly sorry. I will delete the blog if you want me to, but I haven't because I don't want to hide from my misdoings. I don't want to just try and erase my horrible mistake, instead, I'd like to learn from it and fix it. I will do whatever you need me to do moving forward.
You are a strong person for being on this journey, and you didn't need any ignorant blog from me relating your journey to a stupid online game. That was terrible of me and I'm sorry you had to even see it ever.
Lastly, I'm also sorry that this learning experience for me was at tpidude73's unintentional expense. That is completely unfair to you.
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i believe you didn’t have any ill intentions but why is the blog still up...
mellojello i do think theres some respect to be had in recognizing mistakes and leaving them to be seen as acknowledgement of them being mistakes instead of potentially "hiding" them
MelloJello because I really don't know what to do. I'm like really upset that I had this effect on someone, so I can't imagine how this person actually feels as well. I don't know if deleting the blog is sweeping under the rug and will come off as if I can just say "Oh, well, I deleted it so it's fine." or if deleting the blog is what she wants me to do. I don't want to further hurt anyone and I CLEARLY do not have the discernment necessary for navigating my ignorant mistake and I just want to do what's right only
but you’ve apologized on the blogs page and privately in their dms. if anyone were to just see your previous blog for what it is, it can come across as insensitive. you even admitted trust the blog was tone deaf so just delete it. everything will be alright because people know you’re a good person. don’t sweat it ❤️ sliceelectraviv
For anyone who is reading this apology and thinking that it may be fake, and feels the need to speak on my behalf or possibly attack Viv, there is no need to do that! Mistakes are made by people, but she has realized, apologized and we are fine with one another, so there is no reason to start any fights or arguments!
in all seriousness tho, it takes a big person to do what you just did and that was to OWN your shit pepper flakes LITERALLY. Very proud of you AUNT viv
Stop filtering yourself. Are you truly sorry? If not then don't apologise and own it.
Are they sorry that they're garnering for sympathy as soon as nommed?? Prob not. So why should you be sorry or having an OPINION that it's convenient timing?
People will take offense to stuff all the time. Stop caring. If we live our lives by stopping doing stuff that MIGHT offend SOMEONE, then we'd never do or say anything. You can't please 7.5billion people so stop trying and be yourself. Cancel culture and herd mob mentality on this site is a joke. Everyone says "be true to yourself" etc...., well if you DIDN'T share your own thoughts and opinions, you wouldn't be being true to yourself, would you??
Fuck the lynch mob hypocrites that you've probably never spoken to in your life, have literally no basis to judge you on, and need to cancel people on TG to give their life purpose.
Also your blog was a good point to anybody capable of critical freethought. Timing is everything. To say there wasn't a hint of anything and we're never allowed to question anyone when it comes to this stuff is firstly disingenuous, and secondly straight up dangerous.
FMLWhyAMIBack this sounds like some sort of edgy 15 year old white republican kid who just learnt the concept of "facts over feelings", and uses it for their "intellectual" takes
for my take, if tpi-73 is fine with it, there are better things to focus on! :)
it looks like you were responsible and sensible for taking responsibility with your mistakes. allison summed up it well, "it takes a big person to do what you just did", good for you!
