OMG this isn't meant to be shady or mean you can keep negging Tengaged I just am shook that this is happening! I would be sad if Lemjam6 vlogged against me in any way let alone something as serious as coming out! To be clear, I respect tpidude73 and her gameplay!
you're calling her coming out dirty, whether or not u meant it that way girl and u know i like and respect you. your intentions may have been harmless but the implication of this blog allows people who think trans people are in some way shady or being trans for any reason other than, well, being trans to continue thinking that
Slice I absolutely 100% am not calling her coming out dirty. That is so sad that you're accusing that of me?! I would literally never, ever, ever insult, demean, or be condescending to anyone's coming out journey, especially one that I am not familiar with at all. I don't know tpidude73, I don't know anything about her, I am only making a remark in regards to how she got nominated next to her best friend and is now vlogging for Stars support. I would be absolutely devastated if one of my best friends did that to me. That's where I said "it's a dirty world out there." I do not and can not think of another time in TG where a supposed best friend has done something like this to another best friend in Stars when they're nominated together. That is literally all I'm saying
viv i know, thats why i said i know your intentions were harmless. i need you to know that, despite the fact that you ARENT saying that, that is how the blog comes off and it gives power to people who DONT respect her to see someone like you say this. if they're best friends, you have to imagine they likely spoke about this and it was the furthest thing from dirty gameplay.
Slice, Okay, thank you for illuminating that for me. I never thought or meant this vlog to have anything to do with her coming out. It was the point that the coming out vlog was done next to her best friend while nominated. I don't have any place to judge anyone's coming out journey ever, and that includes when it is done. Very, very simply and briefly my only point is that I thought it was juicy a best friend vlogged against another friend while in Stars.
electraviv yeah and i get that! but thats why i wanted to let you know that sometimes choice of words can have much bigger of an impact and implication than we think. i respect you way too much to not say something, and i apologize that i came off even slightly as accusatory in the first place!! love you girl
Natepresnell First of all, you should @ me or mail me so I can more quickly see your question. But I still do not know what the best thing to do is about this really horrible blog. If I delete the blog, then I don't want it to be perceived as I'm hiding my mistake or that I don't want to own up to it or that I just want people to forget about it. I would much rather acknowledge how terrible this was and maybe others can recognize that something like this is NOT okay and to be more understanding and sensitive towards a situation then try "sweeping it under the rug". The ball is completely in V's court and she has not expressed to me any wish or desire one way or another regarding the deletion, removal, or editing of this blog, even after asking her directly publicly and privately. I didn't even want to edit my original blog with a link to my apology to make it seem like I'm trying to cover my bad mistake up, which is why I commented it here instead. This way, I'm leaving it as it is until I hear a "I want you to keep it up so people can learn from your mistakes" or "I want you to delete it because it's water under the bridge" or "I want you to delete it because it still deeply hurtful to me."
