Obviously, if you were around in 2014ish, y'all know that I was obviously involved in some dramatic instances, ranging from Tribe Cheaters (https://tengaged.com/blog/Tengaged_Moderation/5267873/introducing ) to joining the Millz to drama with a multitude of users etc.
But I promise you, that all of that is soooo irrelevant and stupid and not worth it.
Don't worry about what people on TG are saying about you or whether you're constantly checking the blogs page or your @'s to see if anyone has said anything to you, I promise it's not worth it.
I don't even remember the people I've had issues with let alone what those issues were even about and now I'm friends with like literally 98% of the people I never thought I'd be friends with. Just chill out and don't be so perturbed - I know because I'm on the "other side" now.
Love,
Viv
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this entire website is just a place for gay teenagers to get their drama fix without facing any actual consequences for what they say or how they act
if anyone gets legitimately upset about drama here then they're on the wrong website imo!
but honestly the time we all have spent on TG is really not worth it, i used to be 24/7 on, now i dont really care about it just like you so hopefully we can at least solve our issues and begin a clear start
So so so true. I enjoy dropping in and blogging a little. I use T to speak with some cool people, blog my thoughts in a forum where nobody in my day to day life can judge and to procrastinate a little, giving my brain a break from stresses. I think that's the healthiest place to be with it. There is no need to get sucked up into pointless dramas. One invests so much and gets so little. There are some amazing users I used to adore here and now I cannot even remember their irl names. It is same as with enemies, as you mentioned.
if anyone gets legitimately upset about drama here then they're on the wrong website imo!