I agree with what boicam77 said - literally none of this matters which is why it’s better to just ignore some of the people who try to start fights here. You don’t have to feel walked over Coolsocks1 - you’re your own person and you’re a good friend / have insightful opinions. It’s good you don’t let your identity revolve around winning / being a jerk. The people who are worth your time will appreciate those things in you. Wins in games or arbitrary awards don’t make people more liked / better human beings.