So I have been shown some screenshots by nikw98 that I was not aware of the exact way the break up went over a year ago and I need to apologize and get some things straight with you guys
So when i was accused of cheating yesterday I immediately made a blog saying that wasn't true because I didn't realize she meant emotionally and not physical stuff. We were dating for the majority of my grade 12 year in school and she was the one person I would have died for but as time went on the long distance aspect of the relationship was tearing me apart and I did some things that wasn't the right decision while in a relationship and I believe i really hurt her mental health at the time without even realizing it in the moment.'
I was talking to a girl in my school leading up to prom and asked grace if i she was okay if i took her to prom which she said yes. At this point I had been talking to my prom date for a little bit in the month leading to prom without letting grace know which was one of the huge mistakes i made during the relationship. It wasn't until i decided I was going to try and pursue a relationship with my prom date that I broke up with grace and said the reason i didn't want to be together. This is definitely where the cheating happened because I know you are not suppose to talk to other girls and build a connection while dating another and for some reason I still did it. I know I should have broken up with grace before i started talking to a girl from my school and looking back I wish i did because i believe that's where i caused the most pain to her and i really wish that wasn't the case.
I really hope you know Pinkiepie512 that i'm truly sorry for anything I did to hurt you during out relationship and anything i may have done afterwards to worsen our friendship. I really hope you can accept an apology but if you don't its completely understandable because idk how you could ever forgive me for the stuff I did. I am sorry for the blog I made yesterday and how much that could have hurt as well. I really hope it works out with the other Alex because you deserve the world with how amazing you are as a person.
I'm sorry to everyone for making it seem like I was the nice guy yesterday in this situation as i was completely wrong and was finally made aware of some of the things i did to Grace during the relationship and that if anyone is the bad person in this situation its definitely me.
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Not taking sides here brother but how did you “forget this” and then all of a sudden remember it detail to detail?
Because i was shown a screenshot talking about my prom which brought back some things i didn't want to remember which was prom night and some things that happened with me and my prom date in the following month afterwards Maturo
bro i don’t mean to be a dick but these blogs don’t sit right with me high key
Saying stuff like “I suck I hope ur happy with the new person he’s so much better!!” is so disgusting and completely invalidates everything you’ve said and shows no remorse at all for an apology
Furthermore who “forgets” they were talking to and went to prom with another girl conveniently, legit if you needed a screenshot from someone else about YOUR life ur either a fucking idiot or have the shittest memory on the planet
I fully couldn’t care less about t relationships but this entire blog is just a pity parade of “hey I did something wrong but here’s a non-apology where I say good luck in ur new relationship!!”
The screenshot was to tell me what the cheating was because I thought I had broken up with her before my prom but I was wrong and so I said what I remember from my prom which I originally I thought wasn't relevant to the situation PrinceVans
Alex, I really hope you can learn from your mistake. Grace is my friend and I considered you a friend too, and I’ve seen plenty of screenshots on what you have said and what she thinks. I really believe you are too naive and you need to start realizing that such things can hurt people. I personally think you should apologize and move on, and try to forget about Grace, because you’ve messed up quite a bit dude...
This was the last thing I wanted to say about the situation and then I'm moving on and I know I messed up big time and have learned a lot since and I wish she didn't have to go through what I put her through for me to realize but I cant change it unfortunately Redfabfoxy
It does kinda feel like you're trying to play the victim and gain sympathy here, the best thing you can do at this point is just move on and stay away from her tbh.
