I spend an embarrassing amount of time thinking about reaching out to people to talk and then convincing myself otherwise because I don’t want to be clingy. And I’m just tired of being the person to constantly reach out lol. Like ughhh I’m so lonely and tired and miss people but I’m also tired of constantly being the one to reach out and keep convos going. The fact that more than five people right now too is pretty sad.
Anyways, sad rant done. Special shout-out though to Chels052_ who’s my special bean and snaps me everyday and isn’t tired of me, ilyyyy 🥰✨you’re so special 😍❤️
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Aw :( I understand this feeling, I have experienced it at times as well. You just want people to come to you, because you can't always tell if they are sick of you or not if you're the one who always comes to them first. Sometimes both people are awkward, some of the people you are experiencing this with could be feeling the same way as you.
I know we don't talk super often, but I like you a lot and I've never found you annoying, I think you're great. I hope you feel better <3
SAME, there's lot of people I want to reach out to and reconnect and just send my love. But I feel like I always have to put in the work, when they never in return reach out to me.
cheritaisdelicious awww girl this means a lot! Thanks so much, yeah that could be true too 😅 I just am soooo mentally exhausted to even start convos anymore even though I like want to talk to ppl LOL
PrincessTeePee yeah absolutely ! I got some good ones that I hold near and dear to me! Thanks so much ❤️
Awww . Well I mean we have a snap streak to keep intact...
😂 but in all seriousness you’ve very quickly became one of my best friends on here and I love talking to you every day ! I honestly think we relate on a lot of things including this. A lot of my friends irl don’t reach out to me honestly ... I’ve lost a lot of friends in the past because I stopped reaching out after feeling like I was the only one putting inthe effort. But I think in the end it makes you realize who your real friends are and it’s not all bad . 🤷♀️
Chels052_ girl I LOVE YOUUU and I loveee talking to you every day and how we’ve bonded ❤️❤️❤️ And you’re 1000% right, quite shows who wants to be there and willing to put in the effort
I understand this soooooo much. I hate feeling like I’m bothering anyone and I feel like if I don’t reach out then they won’t. It’s exhausting putting in all the work in some friendships.
That said, I freaking love you girl, one of the most genuine people I’ve met on this site. I hope school and everything’s going well! And if you wanna chat ever I have both Skype and snap (whichever you use) don’t wanna bug ya but I’m always down to talk girl ❤️❤️❤️ carolinasteele
Ughhh ILY! I need to do better about reaching out. haven't been on skype in a while needed a stars break and been busy with work. but I will reach out soon <3
I know we don't talk super often, but I like you a lot and I've never found you annoying, I think you're great. I hope you feel better <3