I sincerely doubt anyone will care, but my birthday is tomorrow and I literally am just not excited at all. It feels more depressing because I don't have a lot of friends and i'm not really doing anything to celebrate other than going out to dinner, I even like posted on my sc story if I should make plans and non of my "friends" said anything.
It's just a seriously depressing birthday and I feel so alone when I should be like excited to be alive another year.
I just needed to vent, thanks to anyone who bothered to read!
:( that's stupid - i dont really celebrate my bday tbh but if you wanted to it sucks that your friends didnt reach out - who are you having dinner with? family?
kindred7 i'm having lunch with my aunt and then dinner with my girlfriend, that's who im really spending most of my bday with which im totally fine with. i just wish i could of gone out w/ some friends you know?
Birthday's dont really matter when you get older. They're only fun when you're young. Every birthday is one year closer to death! Don't wanna celebrate that tbh.
The people I know that still enjoy their birthdays are the people who go way out of their way to make sure everyone knows exactly when it is and that they will be expecting something, LOL. Not my style, but it works for them.
Aw, everyone has lonely periods in their life. Sometimes one is just not in the right situation with the right people. I remember being 19 and struggling to form bonds. I wasn't doing anything wrong, my peers weren't doing anything wrong. There just wasn't a connection. I'm sure you'll have lots of friends when you're older and on your true adult path.
In the meantime, you don't need people to celebrate. You can have fun with family, or even by yourself. You can try something or go somewhere you've always wanted. You could go on a solo date to a movie you have been wanting to see or have a chill day. Society tells us so much that popularity is important and we should have people around us all the time, but ofen that isn't feasible, and even when it is, more fun can sometimes be had without company as you don't have to make compromises. The day really can be all about you. 😊
First of all: Happy birthday :)
Going to dinner sounds great!
When you get older, "friends" filter out and the ones you are left with are the true ones. And the good thing about friends is that you can always make more. You don't have to rely on sc stories.
I would say more, but 7593756 blah blah numbers (really? What a complicated username..) has said it all already.
ENJOY :)
Plussed <3