i mean, i have been told this is about me, and if it was, as the queen of kindness, it would have been kind to have gotten a tag ;)
regardless, i don't think anyone's worth is being lessened by someone not knowing who they are? i admit in the comment i am washed up & everyone knows i am not as active as i used to be. i am allowed to voice my opinion in the public forum that is the tengaged dot com pollbox, if the person in question has a concern about a comment i made they could directly reach out to me instead of having friends mail/blog on their behalf and paint people asking genuine questions out to be antagonists in a situation where no one is on a "good" or "bad" side lol